I live in Oklahoma, and have a group of about 8-12 friends that have been doing some backpacking / hiking for the last few years. Our previous mountain summit experience is hiking up Little Costilla (~12,600 elevation with about 2,500 ft of gain) in northern NM. No trails, no established campsites, and we backpacked in to our base camp. Very remote and wild. Its an awesome trip. But we want to try a 14er this year.
I've done a fair amount of reading and research, and want to try either Quandary or the Decalibron for our upcoming trip (summer 2019) - maybe both.

On a related note, we would like to car camp at Kite Lake.

thanks so much for all the input you're willing to share with a first-timer!
UPDATE / TL;DR:
After 6 pages of great input, a lot of Googling, and talking with friends with experience, we have decided to do 4 total days on the ground. Our trip will look like this.
Day 1: Camp near Salida with acclimation hike to Waterdog Lakes (~10,300 ---> 11,500)
Day 2: Camp near Aspen with acclimation hike at Maroon-Snowmass, mostly just to sight-see (~9,600 ---> 10,100)
Day 3: Camp near Winfield and attempt Huron
Day 4: Camp near Buena Vista and attempt Yale. Alternatively, we may stay in Winfield and attempt La Plata so we don't have to move camps too many times.