As my name suggests, I'm a heavier gal (5'3, 172lbs) and likely some of you have seen this barrel body traipsing up the hills. I'm just starting my fitness journey with mountaineering, much thanks to the kind informative posters on here.

Butttt, what prompted me to finally post, is I'm discouraged by people defaulting to recommending Quandary as a great beginner hike. Not that it's incredibly challenging, but all three of the other mountains I've summited have been CONSIDERABLY less strenuous than Quandary. I had tried and failed Quandary twice before I ever finished a 14er. And I think if I never had the guts to try somewhere else after repeated failures, I'd just have chalked up that I was too hopeless of a case to finish one. So i ask: why do we recommend it over the much gentler and shorter ones that could potentially incite more people into this lifestyle?
Quandary is not easy. No 14er is, especially for overweight people, but I just wish I had heard other recommendations for beginner hikes when I was still a peak virgin. Thoughts?